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If you鈥檝e ever watched some of the popular college movies or TV shows (oldies but goodies include the late 鈥�90s series Felicity and 2001鈥檚 Legally Blonde) or you鈥檝e checked your favorite websites for college advice, then you鈥檝e probably got a good idea of what to expect, right? Well, maybe. A lot of what you see and/or hear isn鈥檛 exactly true.

Here are 12 of the top misconceptions about college鈥�

1. Living in a dorm room is like one big slumber party. Living at home and sharing a room with your brother or sister wasn鈥檛 much of a constant party, was it? At home, you were also able to hang out in the living room or kitchen. Your dorm room is your bedroom, kitchen, and living space rolled into one. If you鈥檙e living in a traditional double room, even the modern ones are still about the size of a shoe box. (Most college campuses have more old dorms than new.)

2. Getting away from your parents means total freedom. Without Mom and Dad questioning your whereabouts and telling you what you can and cannot do, you鈥檒l finally be able to live your life just how you want, right? Kind of. Many students who go away to college wind up homesick鈥攕omething they never expected鈥攁nd still call home for advice. Oh, and to ask for money.

3. You鈥檒l hate your roommate. Heard horror stories about evil roommates who use (and lose or break) people鈥檚 things without asking? Roommates with body odor who never hit the showers? Roommates who have no qualms about bringing their significant other home to get some action? While these things could happen, many college roomies get along fine. And others barely ever see each other due to conflicting class and work schedules.

4. You鈥檒l become instant BFFs with your roommate. See number three. While it is possible to become lifelong buddies with your new college roommate, it鈥檚 not a guarantee. You might not even remember his or her name after graduation.

5. The classes are so big, no one will ever notice if you don鈥檛 show up. Lecture halls packed with 200 or 300 students means you鈥檒l never be missed! While that may be true in some large classes that are core requirements, others have 20 or 30 students and meet in traditional-sized classrooms just like you had in high school. Skipping class won鈥檛 do you any favors anyway鈥攜ou never know when you鈥檒l miss an unannounced quiz or important handout.

6. As long as you get good grades on your exams, your GPA will be excellent. Tests are all that matter in college! Right? Well, exams do count for a lot of your final course grade, but papers, projects and other occasional assignments will also play a role. You could earn A鈥檚 and B鈥檚 on every exam but get a bad grade on a required essay that drops your grade significantly.

7. There鈥檚 no homework! Homework in college is often optional, but there鈥檚 sure to be plenty of require reading and it鈥檚 also in your best interest to do suggested assignments even if you鈥檙e not obligated. They will give you a taste of what鈥檚 to come on future exams and allow you to ask for assistance if something is confusing.

8. You will discover your true self during college. College is often promoted as the best years of your life. Many people decide to transform themselves physically, with new hairstyles and new clothing, and others wind up discovering that they have interests they never even dreamed possible. If that doesn鈥檛 happen to you though, it鈥檚 okay. You鈥檒l still do a lot of growing up and go through plenty of changes that aren鈥檛 totally obvious on a day-to-day basis. When you look back at your freshman self four years later, you鈥檒l be amazed at how much you changed since orientation.

9. High school cliques will be a thing of the past. It鈥檚 easy to assume that those groups of cheerleaders, football players, video game fanatics, and honor society prize-winners who had segregated 鈥渟pots鈥� in the hallways and high school cafeteria will be a thing of the past in college. Well, kind of. College is still full of clubs, groups, and also fraternities and sororities with members who socialize exclusively with one another. Even students who are majoring in the same subject wind up hanging out together because they spend so much time together during class.

10. Paying off student loans won鈥檛 be that bad. You鈥檒l be able to work full-time after graduation. Borrowing money to pay for college will be worth it in the long run, right? Even if it鈥檚 not a six-figure salary, you鈥檒l be able to land some kind of full-time job after earning your degree. That鈥檚 actually not a great attitude to have鈥攕ome students wind up leaving college before they graduate, but they are still responsible to paying off their student loans. Others graduate but can’t land full-time work. If you don鈥檛 pay close attention, you may be borrowing way more than you even realize and a $700 a month loan payment is going to be a big burden on your entry-level salary. If you find a job, that is.

Have Realistic College Expectations

Having an unrealistic picture of college in your mind involves more than disappointing your own expectations. Caralee Johnson Adams explains that Preparing Students to Transition from High School to College, a study compiled by IQS Research, suggests that people who have misconceptions about college might not be able to adequately prepare themselves鈥攂oth academically and behaviorally鈥攐r adopt the habits necessary to be a successful college student.

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